Lets be sincere with ourselves we’ve all been there.
Where? u say.
In a position where you find yourself wondering, “who cares anyway”, “no one will bother”, “I don’t fit in” or “they wont accept me in there click”. These are some of the thoughts that has at one time or the other run through our minds. We find ourselves yarning to feel a sense of belonging among our friends, in the family and in some of the social gatherings we would love to find ourselves.
The most concerning of all these is when we don’t feel loved even in our homes. Its more difficult when we feel that people around us everyday don’t care about how we feel, when our siblings pair themselves and it looks like they just gang up against us. To make matters worse, our parents who we think should bother, go out all day only to come back at night feeling all grumpy and waiting to bark at the first person that gets their attention.
How do we deal with this?
If you identify with this problem, place you comments and advises on so that we can learn from you.
God bless you
Okay
i suppose it doesnt seem that ur the only one who is desperately seeking an answer to this question. probably there comes a time when people arnd us are too messed up with their own lives leaving themselves with little time to acre about the loved ones.
My say- give some time out to them n to urself as well
God bless you
By: minizblog on January 28, 2008
at 10:20 am
There’s a very high demand for true love in the world. Thank you for increasing the supply seun.
By: bussee on January 28, 2008
at 7:40 pm
Ok..First thing first. I never knew about your blog..anyway, we will settle the score later. Oya back to my comment.
In my honest opinion, when it comes to people outside your nuclear family and friends, my thought is ” Must everyone like you?” I know it sounds crazy, but the honest truth is that not everyone will like you. Some people already have pre-conceived notions about you and will forever judge you based on it, no matter how hard you try..so why bother..(mi o le para mi meen..lol)?
I may not be able to comment when it comes to the “family” own cos i think its rather unusual,at least based on my experience. However, if i must post, i’ll just advise spiritual intervention..abi?
Just being honest..
By: folayemianifowoshe on January 29, 2008
at 12:55 am
minizwurld,
Thanks for leaving your comment
Its good to know that people can recognize with this problem. I only pray that people get to know how to solve it so the number of our teenagers falling in the wrong hands can reduce.
By: letstalk2okay on January 29, 2008
at 8:42 am
i’ve been in that position before. where i thot was not loved in the family, where i had reasons to doubt if i was one of them at all. reality is they loved me i was just not seeing it because i wasnt expecting it the way it was coming. i wanted my own idea of love. what got me out of it?
1. a proper definition of love that came from God’s word
2. a closer and critical look and the things that upset me.
3. loving myself and loving back
4. someone to talk to who would shed more light on things
5. a decision to be happy…not to loose my joy no matter what.
Let that teenager out there know that truly not everyone will love him or her but reality it those things he or she interpretes as dislike may actually be done in the name of LOVE.
By: akinyemiabiola on January 30, 2008
at 2:31 am
At times it might not really be about the people arround you. The major problem most times is U. U dont jst think ur good enough for all dat love. U have to change ur own self orientation to appreciate pple no matta how small. May be u should show more love to pple. Love has a funny way of operating. Wen u show love to others u show love to urself, imagin hearin things like ‘thank u, i really appreciate that, thanks for thinking about me, Thanks for reminding me, ur too much, bless u” etc Tell me All these is not love and i will deal wit u myself. Note however, u dont hear this all d time, it only comes as a result of the love uv shown. lets go show some love.
By: atiwalolu on February 14, 2008
at 3:48 pm